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Courtship is an art that is becoming more and more rare in a society that places increasing importance on impure pleasures and immediate satisfaction.
Whereas Catholic courtship used to be passed from father to son, the Catholic resurgence in young adults has left many men without the focus necessary to sustain a true courtship.
Recently an article I posted about Catholic men and dating went a little viral.
This week a Catholic gal (who wished to remain anonymous) responds with some suggestions for avoiding common Catholic dating faux pas.
Once he has found this special woman, he treats her with respect.
When asking her out on a first date he does not succumb to boyish behavior by utilizing a simple text or facebook message.
They're mostly common sense but there can often be a deficiency of common sense when the opposite sex is concerned.
Here are 4 common Catholic dating problems, with advice on how to navigate them: (1) The Problem: Catholic circles are small This has many positive aspects, but also lends to a common problem: if you ask a bunch of girls out, you'll end up dating girls who are close friends or roommates and...can get awkward. The Solution: Do ask girls you are interested in out, but don't go so far as to be a serial dater.
But if you treat dating like a game, then we can't trust you with our time, let alone our hearts.You'll inadvertently get a reputation as someone who's not serious and might leave a trail of disappointed girls in your wake - and girls do talk to other girls, for better or for worse.Be sensitive to the fact that close circles can result in high drama when eligible young men are concerned, so you might need to do pre-emptive damage control if things don't work out with one roommate and you decide to date the second.A man who takes a risk on a woman in a gentlemanly fashion is admirable and courageous, even if we seem a bit awkward as we decline.But trying to save face communicates that you can't take ownership of your own situation and that you value your own ego over the well-being of our hearts.