So that when you do have sex, it’s going to be with a woman so incredible that the average guy couldn’t hope to hold her interest.Being a virgin into adulthood—or going years without sex—is normal, especially among truly great, sweet, wonderful, sexy men who eventually make incredible boyfriends and even better sexual partners. Remember, though; a guy who goes through a promiscuous phase may feel shame about that, too. You can show up to sex in your masculine power no matter your sexual history. I know it feels like it’s happened for everyone else, even the known weirdos and self-professed sexist perverts.They’re all getting more ass than a hay bale at a donkey farm.When you do meet someone great, let yourself trust her. Don’t worry that you may not be great in bed the first time.No one is great their first time with a new person, no matter how many other partners they’ve had!And you …I know you’re frustrated, and I can’t imagine just how frustrating this is for you.People say it’s easier for women, and at least in my own experience, that’s true.
Don’t think you have to be fashionable to get a girl, if you really couldn’t care less about what shoes you wear.In the vast majority of cases, you not having sex has nothing to do with you, your attractiveness, or your eligibility.On the contrary: in my experience, it’s the best guys who hold on to their V-Cards the longest, and go the longest without sex.Maybe you were focused on your job, friends, sport, spiritual growth, or other truly meaningful endeavors.Maybe those things took all of your attention, and provided you with lots of satisfaction. It doesn’t matter that your life hasn’t included sex yet; you have lots to be proud of that has nothing to do with getting laid!